Divorce presents a special set of challenges for stay at home mothers. A stay at home mom will face the extra challenge of having a difficult time making ends meet because she will have little control over finances, since she is not bringing a paycheck home. If you are a stay at home mom and you want to file for divorce, you might feel like you don’t have much power in your relationship. You might be afraid that a judge will not give you custody of your children because you have no job and it seems as though you will have a difficult time providing for your children. However, if you are in this situation, you do have options. With the help a lawyer, you can get child support and find ways to get a job, even if you have been out of work for a long time.
Firstly, if you are a stay at home mom and you are worried about supporting your children after a divorce, find a good attorney to help you get through the divorce. A divorce attorney is experienced in cases such as your and can help you to get certain things out of the divorce that will make your life easier once you are a single parent. Your lawyer can help you to get child support and possibly alimony. This will help you to support your children as you try to go back to school or find a job to support your children. You will still be able to receive financial support from your ex, and this will take some of the pressure off of you as you try to provide for your children.
Another concern that you might have as a stay at home mother is that your spouse will fight you for custody rights and will win. This can be an overwhelming thought, but try not to panic. Many stay at home mothers go through divorce and are able to still keep custody of their children. If you do not have a job or a license, you will want to start working on these things immediately. Try to get a resume together as soon as possible, consider your strengths, and begin looking for a job. Even if you do get child support from your ex, you will need to go back to work in order to fully support your children and yourself. Finding a job might be a lengthy and difficult process, but you will be able to support your children in the future, especially if you are proactive.
Facing divorce as a stay at home mom can be overwhelming and stressful. Remember that you do have options and that in most cases you will be able to get custody of your children, even if you need to work on your financial situation. Also keep in mind that hiring a lawyer can greatly reduce your stress during this time. If you would like to schedule a free consultation with me click here.
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